Matang

Hi people, Assalammualaikum

MATANG

How did we define matang ? Everyone sure has their very own definition of matang.

So do I.

Matangkah seseorang itu ,

Bila they act differently?

Bila mereka berpakaian as a grown up ?

Bila mereka sgt behave?

Bila mereka dapat attract kita in a good & professional way ?

Bila mereka stop act childish ?

Some of us may say yes and some of us may say no. 

One day, someone asked me something about "matang" and im not sure what the question is

"What is matang?" or "How do you define matang" . 

For me, i simply answered that matang is based on ones appearance and how they behave.

Then she asked, How?

DUSH. *silence*

From there i had the difficulty to express myself , to really explain to her what i feel.

I know why, She knew it . READING guys. I should read more.

After having this so called 'discussion' i got the point.

Basically maturity is based on how we think. 

Look, even now i have the difficulty to express my thought. 

Maybe matang is when seseorang itu dapat comes out with a really unique and new idea from the very simple thing yang orang lain tak pernah terfikir.

Mungkin sebab dia berfikir dari sisi lain dan tidak mental block, yang pemikirannya tidak dikuasai oleh perkara common sense dan logik menyebabkan perkara yang diluar common sense adalah tidak mungkin dapat dilakukan.

That's the problem when people see it as a common sense. 

For example,

She likes him. He likes her . Later, they become a couple.

Then people say, 

"Alah dah suka sama suka then couple. COMMON SENSE la" 

See?

Waittt, apa yang common sense nya ? Tell me . 

Who told you suka sama suka, you boleh couple ? Pegi KAWEN la 

Ok im out of topic. Main point kat sini is matang.

If we dont learn from mistakes, we'll never change. 

notakaki ; mungkin idea saya tidak sampai dan tidak mampu mengetuk pintu hati anda. mohon tunjuk ajar ye semua.